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  I used to think love didn’t need to be explained. I remember sitting across from someone I cared about, the conversation drifting past my feelings without ever touching them. Nothing was wrong, exactly. There was no argument, no goodbye. Just an unspoken understanding that as long as we were still there, still choosing each other, everything must be fine. Words felt optional, even unnecessary. I told myself actions mattered more, that needing reassurance was a weakness I should eventually outgrow.  Then I fell in love with someone who rarely said what they felt.  He wasn’t unkind. He just believed that love was understood. When I needed reassurance, he would offer logic instead of comfort.   It usually came up in small moments. Late at night, when the day was finally quiet, I asked something simple, “ Do you still feel the same about us?”  He would look at me, confused more than annoyed, and say,  “You know I care. Why do I need to say it?” When I tried t...

  “Can you feel it leaving?” the blind boy asked, dragging his fingers over the rim of the park bench. “I think so,” the other boy said, squinting at the sky. “It’s like the air got softer.” The wind changed, brushing warm edges against their cheeks. Somewhere, a distant siren wavered in the half-light. The day didn’t snap shut, didn’t fall with a hammer. The horizon glowed pink, then amber, then a tired gray, folding itself into night. “Sun’s down?” the blind boy whispered. “Yeah,” the sighted one said. “But it’s not gone. You can feel it here,” he tapped his chest. I remember thinking then how the world could teach you endings without ever saying a word, like a change in  temperature , a pause in sound, a sky leaning into itself. That evening, I noticed that the comfort it left behind lingered in different ways, like a sensation that pulls you to just keep walking. January feels like that. The holidays fade, the commotion dissolves, and right there, things seemed to go slowe...

  January is often framed as a month of forward motion, a relentless push toward a  new you  that stands somewhere in the shimmering, distant future. We are told to look ahead, to purge the old, and to burn the maps of where we’ve been. But in the deep, heavy silence of mid-winter, this forward gaze can feel cold and hollow. It is hard to run toward a new version of yourself when the ground is frozen, and the air is thin. In this season of quiet recalibration, the most vital direction isn’t forward: it is South. In the symbolic compass of the soul, South is the direction of origin. It is the path back to the heat of the sun, to the soil that raised us, and to the versions of ourselves we left behind in the rush to “improve.” To turn south in January is to realize that you cannot build a new house without honoring the foundation, and you cannot start a new chapter if you have forgotten the language of the book. The Myth of the Blank Slate The world tells us that January 1s...

  The house wakes up like a cat. First one eye opens, then the other. You can hear the radiators making a lot of noise as they get hot. The light in the kitchen is really yellow. I am standing there wearing wool socks. I want the kettle to work correctly. I want the kettle to remember that it is supposed to boil water. My old enamel cup has a chip in it from when I moved in. I got this chip on moving day. I never got around to fixing it. In January, you start to notice all the problems with everything—the house, the kettle, and the cup. Everything seems to have a lot of issues in January. No one cheers for this hour. I do not feel new. I am still the person who slept with my phone on my pillow and neglected to respond to an email, and the calendar is just a piece of paper placed on top of yesterday’s mess. It isn’t easy to open the oat container’s cover. Halfway through, the drawer containing the spoons becomes stuck. It’s chilly on the floor. In my life, fresh beginnings look like...

  January arrives without ceremony. No countdown, no music swelling to carry it forward. It simply shows up one morning, quiet and pale, asking us to keep going when the warmth of December has already packed itself away. The decorations are gone. The lights come down. The house feels quieter than it did just weeks ago. Even the air feels different. The calendar opens up, long and empty, and suddenly there’s nowhere to hide. People say January is a fresh start. But for me, it has never felt that way. January feels more like standing still after something big has ended, not knowing what comes next, but knowing you can’t stay where you are. One January, a few years ago, I felt completely  lost . The year before had taken more out of me than I expected. Things ended without closure. Some plans didn’t work out. Some relationships faded without a clear reason. By the time December came, I was tired in a way sleep couldn’t fix. The holidays distracted me for a while, family dinners, ...

  When the house finally goes quiet, and the moon spills through the blinds like a memory, I start thinking about the people I’ve hurt. Not intentionally, not cruelly, just carelessly, like children often do when they don’t yet understand how heavy their hands can be. My sister’s laugh used to annoy me. It was loud and easy, like she didn’t know the world was supposed to be hard. I was the older one, sharper, quicker with words that cut deeper than I ever meant. I used to mock her drawings, hide her toys, and make her cry just to feel in control of something. We grew up and drifted apart, different cities, different lives. But some nights, her face at eight years old visits me again. That small, wounded look that asked what she had done wrong. It eats at me, even now. I think about calling her, telling her I’m sorry for every cruel thing I said, for being a sister who didn’t protect her. Sometimes I imagine her forgiving me. Sometimes I imagine she won’t. But I’ve learned that apol...